Losin’ Someone Waitin’ for Someone
June 17, 2007
IF YOU LOSE SOMEONE TODAY
“Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone
better is coming tomorrow.” Anyone who has gone through the agony of
losing someone you loves so much will still wish against all odds to
have that love back again. But sometimes a love lost is a love gone
forever. No amount of hope can bring back to life a relationship that just
died a natural death. Set yourself free. Let your heart spread its wings
Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still it will not
rain forever. One day the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of
branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your
nest and start over again. It’s never too late. Remember, you may find
love and lost it but WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER HAVE TO DIE WITH IT.
Remember, you cannot be a redeemer all your life. The best way to weigh a
relationship is to put it out in the test of fire. You cannot be a sooner
of your mistake forever. Remember, we all fall and make wrong decisions
but our blunders are meant not to bury us deep in misery but to teach us
the valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process. With
love, we learn HOW TO CARE and SACRIFICE. We learn to SHARE and REACH
OUT.We learn to be UNSELFISH and GIVE MORE THAN WE CAN. And when
everything doesn’t end well, we learn how it feels like to FALL and GET
But learning doesn’t have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get
back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that LIFE DOESN’T
END WHERE OUR HEARTACHES BEGIN. THERE IS NO FUTURE IN A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. It’s true; there is life in love. But there can
still be life even after losing love if you LEAVE the past behind and
let your heart HEAL and give you the chance to FIND yourself again.
The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning
but in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based
on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember
that…HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE.
Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for
itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always
remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better
is coming tomorrow. IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN’T MEAN YOU HAVE FAILED
IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEARS WASH AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime. A woman on the rebound could easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that she finally stumbled upon the right man when what she just found is only
someone to cover up for the love she lost. If loving a person who attached
to someone else is a crime, and then maybe, many of us would have been
jailed long before we realize what its consequences could have been. Loving
someone is never a sin. It is what people do out of love that sometimes
makes it all wrong. The selfish desire to want that person is what makes
it a sin. DON’T THINK ONLY OF YOUR FEELINGS FOR REAL LOVE DOESN’T HAVE A
PLACE FOR SELFISH PEOPLE. When there is love, there is always sacrifice.
When we love someone, we never easily give up on that person. Even if we
get hurt badly we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to
understand and forgive. Loving too much doesn’t hurt. It is when we expect
this love to be reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance
of the things we have done and when we are taken for granted and rejected,
we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered. DON’T
WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO NEVER REALLY CARES ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT. OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE ONE WHO WOULD MAKE LOVING WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE.
Just like anything else, our love grows weak and dies if not taken cared
of. It can keep up with pain only to a certain extent. Beyond that, it
withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies. GOD WAKES US UP IN
THE MIDST OF A STORM TO TEACH US A LESSON. HE TAKES AWAY PEOPLE WE LOVE; SO WE CAN LEARN TO VALUE LOVE ITSELF. HE MAKES US CRY SO HARD SO WE CAN
SEE CLEARLY WHEN WE OPEN OUR EYES. HE MAKES US BITTER SO WE CAN REALIZE THAT THERE IS NO GENUINE HAPPINESS IF WE THINK ONLY OF OUR NEEDS AND NOT OF OTHERS.
Relationships built on JEALOUSY and SELFISHNESS are doomed from the very
beginning. The HARDEST PART of losing love is LETTING GO and MOVING ON.
Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been but never will
be. God allows us to EXPERIENCE PAIN to make us STRONGER and BETTER
PERSONS. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our
lives and only if we put our trust in Him, we can learn to FIND JOY in our
TEARS and HAPPINESS in our SORROWS.
In many failed relationships, separation comes as the inevitable choice
but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go.
Sometimes the end of a relationship is imposed on us, but our choice to
hold on is always beyond the control of circumstance.
Letting go is a DECISION that can never be dictated on us. It is a
resolution we make to ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new beginning
and Time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful
shadow, there will always be light after our darkest and loneliest
moments. There is always a hope for those who believe. There is always a
chance for those who try. LOSING SOMEONE WE LOVE MAY NOT BE A LOSS AT ALL BUT A BLESSING BECAUSE SOMEONE EVEN MORE DESERVING IS YET TO COME.
IF YOU’RE WAITING FOR SOMEONE
There comes a time in our lives when we get a chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to
that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and
eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when
we begin to REALIZE that this person feels NOTHING MORE for us than
FRIENDSHIP. We start our desperate attempt to GET NOTICED and BE
CLOSER but in the end our efforts are still UNREWARDED and we end up being
SORRY FOR OUSELVES. YOU DON’T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BE BETTER OFF GIVING THAT DEDICATION AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING.
A man who makes a promise with words and not with actions may never live
up to fulfil them. ITS TRUE THAT LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER BUT IT IS CRAZY TO
STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW WE FEEL. Love makes us see things through rose-colored glasses. Most of the time, we fail to recognize the danger sign that light up along our way.
This feeling you have nurtured for so long isn’t healthy anymore. You must
realize that you have to let go now before it consumes you and your
sanity. There is always a time to think and stop, a time to be sensible
and not allow our hearts to rule over our heads. YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY
NOT IN THE ARMS OF A MAN/WOMAN WHO KEEPS YOU WAITING BUT IN THE ARMS OF SOMEONE WHO WILL TAKE YOU NOW AND LOVE YOU FOREVER.
There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to someone we love, but
WE MUST ALWAYS BE SENSITIVE TO THE SIGNALS THAT TELL US WHEN TO BE
RATIONAL AND BE SENSIBLE.There comes a time in our lives when we would
fall for someone who wouldn’t be as interested as we are because his
attention is focused on someone else. There are MANY TIMES WHEN WE LOVE
BUT DON’T GET LOVED IN RETURN. THERE ARE TIMES WHEN THE SIGN AHEAD SAYS STOP BUT WE STILL STUBBORNLY HEAD ON. We would say our love is
unconditional. But if it really is, then we should never feel bad. But why
do we get frustrated when love turns sour? Because we still subconsciously
seek acceptance and assurance from the people we care about. BEING IN
LOVE CAN BE THE MOST WONDERFUL THING WE COULD EXPERIENCE BUT IF THE FEELING BEGINS TO CONSUME OUR WHOLE BEINGS, THEN WE HAVE TO STOP AND LET OUR MINDS AND NOT OUR HEARTS DICTATE OUR ACTIONS. ONLY WHEN WE LEARN TO ACCEPT OUR FATE AND UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF OUR FAILURES CAN WE TRULY GO ON WITH LIFE WITHOUT HAVING TO LOOK BACK AND CRY OVER THE THINGS THAT COULD HAVE BEEN BUT WILL NEVER BE…